Re: Going to canada after spouse

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Subject: Re: Going to canada after spouse
  Thanks Listener & Sharon. I talked with her tomorrow mailed twice and send a mail today also informing that i´m ready to come. Hope that she will believe that i can leave my parents physically and stay with her where she wants. I love her a lot but can´t express(My fault). She is a nice girl in 35 and i´m in 40.

I´m so frustrated. Both of our family has problematic peoples. I just break her heart keep saying that i can´t go with her, if she wants she can go. Now last 4 months i keep saying her i´ll go now she don´t believe me. I really love her. She is the only person i sleep with in my life.

Don´t know what to do.

[04-10-2011,03:43]
[***.83.189.122]
Robi
(in reply to: Re: Going to canada after spouse)
things will be ok for you..... I will pray for you..... ask her that if you come to Canada....will she accept you?

this way you might also know that she has informed CIC or not.

we keep pushing away .....people we love ...... it is a fact ..... we also say things which we do not mean .... but we say them .........

Pray and keep contacting her ..... keep sending her emails ...... i don´t know why but.... i have faith that you two will be together soon ..........


[04-10-2011,04:21]
[***.186.130.128]
Listener
(in reply to: Re: Going to canada after spouse)
if only everyone think and behave like you do Listener, I´m sure the world will be a better place but unfortunately it is not.
You are asking people to be hopefully, that could be dangerous - it is like I am asking you to have faith in people´s honesty and leave your door unlock and bag unattended because you should have faith in humanity... Will you do that? And if you lose your belonging because of my advise, am I responsible for it?

[04-10-2011,09:21]
[***.124.134.109]
SG
(in reply to: Re: Going to canada after spouse)
What a bunch of morons all three of you; All I would say is: if the guy is 40 and can´t speak up, fuck him. The end of story.
[04-10-2011,09:44]
[***.202.41.221]
lulz
(in reply to: Re: Going to canada after spouse)
Robi,

Let me get to the point. The honest truth from the bottom of my heart is that I can´t care less about your personal life and likely NOT a SINGLE person at CBSA, when you are entering Canada either.

Customs and Immigration has nothing to do with your love story here. You have a spousal visa which is valid as long as you keep that status. At the moment that you two change your marital status at that point your visa is compromissed.

As it is right now as of 10 seconds ago, YOU are NOT elegible to MOVE to Canada.

You are risking the chance that you will be refused of entry into the country. For all you know, your visa may not even be valid anymore.

Do whatever you have to do in your personal life and once you have things figure out with your wife then make plans to move to Canada.

Be carefull what Listener is telling you. This person is pretty much telling you to become a staker.

No means no, have you heard that before?

Let´s make it simple. Contact the Canadian Embassy that processed your application and ask them what you should do since you don´t appear to understand what we are telling you with the exception of the Doctor Heart over here who can figure people´s life in a post of two.

[04-10-2011,11:06]
[***.115.153.178]
DocD
NO IDEA (in reply to: Re: Going to canada after spouse)
...ask them what you should do...
[04-10-2011,12:03]
[**.232.244.253]
Anonymous
(in reply to: Re: Going to canada after spouse)
The idea of waiting does not work when there is an expire date for landing.

DocD is the only person that knows the rules in this situation so please be wise and listen to him.


[04-10-2011,13:12]
[**.180.239.117]
Sharon
(in reply to: Re: Going to canada after spouse)
Dear SG.......I have faith in relationships, in marriage, in parents and in God.
Leaving your belongings unattended has nothing to do with faith........It is foolishness.

But faith between husband and wife is far far ahead of these materialist things. It is something that keeps them together for the whole of their lives.

DocD is right.....I am telling Robi to follow his wife..... and why not......Why do we always except our wives to be stalkers???? And then we also talk about equal rights....big deal!!!!!!!

Dear lulz......we humans are bound to make mistakes and I highly appreciate Robi that he has the courage to accept his mistakes........and he is openly talking about it. Now I respect him even more.

Let’s come out of “immigration” for sometimes. Even though it is an immigration forum.....People keep selling things here......nobody tells them to stop......human life is much more important than any freaking immigration....for heaven’s sake

I knew from the very beginning that Robi’s problem was not an immigration problem....... Only thing Robi had to do was make his wife realize that she means a world to him.... and that ......she is the only most important person in his life........ She would have never left without him.

Robi this is my last post on this topic.....but dear.... You can always turn any “No” into “Yes”.......All you have to do is try.......“God help those who help themselves” have you heard that before!

[04-10-2011,13:27]
[***.29.232.235]
Listener
(in reply to: Re: Going to canada after spouse)
Dear listener: Thanks a lot. I´m following & will follow your advice. There is a god....let see what will happen. Thanks to others.
[04-10-2011,14:08]
[***.223.94.71]
Robi
(in reply to: Re: Going to canada after spouse)
Make sure you have a Plan B for when CBSA do not allow you in to Canada.

Obviously, common sense is not part of this conversation and will not be any time soon. Hope things turn out for you.

[04-10-2011,14:33]
[**.183.102.143]
Sharon
(in reply to: Re: Going to canada after spouse)
Listener adivise makes all the sense in the world especially in lala-land. Follow your heart... do it, it works all the time. I think that Federal Regulations when it comes down to Customs & Immigration don´t apply in this case.

As a word of caution, don´t lie at the Port Of Entry. It will make things worse for you and your wife.



[04-10-2011,15:06]
[***.115.153.178]
DocD


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