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My wife went to Canada before me and I don´t know the date but I know the address she went. I´ve my visa and other staffs with me. She don´t let me know when she crossed the immigration.
Now I have no other option to go to Canada without informing her.
As a spouse is there any interview at Canadian immigration?
If it is what I´ve to know?
How much minimum money I need to carry?
Can she stop me to going there?
Please let me know.
[03-10-2011,07:47]
[***.83.189.122]
Robi |
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(in reply to: Going to canada after spouse)
Can you afford to live in Canada by yourself and do you still wish to go to Canada if you are not with your wife?
As much as Listener wants you to be optimistic, he has obviously not convinced your wife to do the same.
You can try to land, but I would keep at the back of my mind that she may have informed CIC that you are separated. Not sure if that will mean they do not allow you to land or not - Doc will be able to tell you that part.
You need enough money to support yourself until you find a job. Probably $2,500 a month for 5-6 months.
[03-10-2011,11:59]
[**.180.239.117]
Sharon |
(in reply to: Going to canada after spouse)
Dear Robi .... Somehow I am emotionally attached to everyone who is having a hard time with relationships and I really don’t want to see any marriage....... break
You don’t know the date she left.... that means you guys were already separated.... (only if you had listened to me at that time.....the situation wouldn’t have been so much difficult now)
Now you have your visa but she is the PA, that means she is responsible for you.... only an immigration expert can tell you what will happen at the airport with you.....but dear ...... I think before leaving you should call or email her and tell her that you are alone and want to be with her(that is.....only if you feel that way off course)
Life is too short for messed up relationships and please take your ego (male ego I mean) away for sometime.... only then you will see clearly .....I know you love her..... tell her this before the point of no return (which is almost there)
best of luck ......... I feel really sorry for her too... coz she don´t know what she has done :(
[03-10-2011,13:33]
[***.178.190.102]
Listener |
(in reply to: Going to canada after spouse)
You feel sorry for her too...coz she don´t know what she has done??????? - Listener
Really???? Are you serious? What or who gives you the right to come up with that conclusion? If you are going to advise someone on a personal level, you better have the whole picture or better yet if you don´t, just keep it to yourself. What you are doing is irresponsable, ignorant and very annoying. We have a love expert that can take someone´s life apart with only one post. REALLY????
For all you know, this guy could be the nicest guy ever or a not so nice guy the truth is, YOU DON´T HAVE A FREEKING CLUE.
Now...back to the point.
No, you can´t land in Canada. At the moment that you two were separated your marital status changed and the principal applicant was obligated to inform CIC. It could well happened at the POE.
I will give you the VERY possible scenarios if you attempt to land in Canada:
a- If you enter Canada with a valid visa even though you were separated, it is called misrepresentation and CIC can come after your PR status and her´s.
b- If you tell the officer at the POE that your wife is no longer with you, your visa will be cancelled and you will be sent back home.
c- Your visa may no longer be valid and you don´t know it. So when you show up at the POE, things can go south in a hurry.
If you manage to lie and enter Canada, would be under misrepresentation which will likely cancel your status and get you out of the country.
Either way, if you want to move to Canada you should re-apply with your own merits.
[03-10-2011,18:54]
[***.115.153.178]
DocD |
(in reply to: Going to canada after spouse)
thanks DocD on a number of levels. I suspected your scenarios might be the case.
Not a pretty picture.
[03-10-2011,19:00]
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Sharon |
(in reply to: Going to canada after spouse)
This is a public forum ............ and if you find anything
"irresponsable, ignorant and very annoying"...............you better not read it.
We all have our personal opinions..... and we must have the courage to respect opinions of other people.
Only cowards don´t want others to speak.......
I am not saying this to any particular person here.... its about everyone of us.
[04-10-2011,00:28]
[***.178.180.96]
Listener |
(in reply to: Going to canada after spouse)
Robi .....your only option is to contact your wife.......or apply for yourself(for which..... I think you are not eligible)......It is not just about... going to Canada ..it is about your whole life.
Do you guys have kids?????
[04-10-2011,00:41]
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Listener |
(in reply to: Going to canada after spouse)
Listener, would your reaction be any different if you learned that Robi used to beat his wife? Just checking. What about the idea that he screwed every girl in town... but was sorry afterwards? Just checking. How about the idea that he has such a temper that he cannot keep a job? just checking?
You are making WAY TOO MANY ASSUMPTIONS about this relationship to offer the advice that you do.
Grow up.
[04-10-2011,02:23]
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Sharon |
(in reply to: Going to canada after spouse)
@Listener: I´m eligible to go to Canada but it will take time. I can apply next year july. We have 16yr relations(7yr love & 9yr family life). But no kids(I´ve no problem & she says she don´t have). Personal we have no mejor problems but it is a family problem. I´m the only son of my parents and she is the only daughter of her mother. We are middle class family and have our own house in the city. We have lot of misunderstanding between us for the family. I informed her that she can apply for Canada and I did every paper workers. Last 4 months i´m trying to make her understand that i´ll leave my family for her and go to Canada. But she don´t believe me now. I´m still trying to convince her. But i understand that if i can go there i can make her understand. If i cancel it may cause problem for her to stay at Canada because she got 5 points for me and if i reapply it will be too late maybe.
@DocD: I´ve enough for me to survive in my country but not the person who I love. Yes it is my fault that i failed to express that to her. I just want to came for her not for PR. If she is not interested i´ll not stay. I know there i´ve to work too hard to live. But in my country I´m earning well now. Yes social security is high in Canada.
@Sharon: I can arrange that money.
[04-10-2011,02:42]
[***.83.189.122]
Robi |
(in reply to: Going to canada after spouse)
Dear Sharon......in Robi´s case.... if any of these things were true ........then he wouldn’t have applied for Canadian immigration.
He wouldn’t have prepared a file with false documents when she being the principle applicant.
They wanted a better life together that is why they applied.
Now coming to your questions:
Yes..... people beat their wives..... I feel sorry for them. they are far behind being a human..... The wife must break his neck if he attempts to even slap her.
Yes.....people screw every other girl/boy in town......Such marriages need not survive.
Yes.... work and paying bills is important but I think one becomes responsible if he or she is having a happy marriage.
I will grow up someday ..... when people stop believing in love and marriage :) .....let that time come ...... let me be in this illusion till then :)
[04-10-2011,02:59]
[***.186.130.128]
Listener |
(in reply to: Going to canada after spouse)
Dear Robi ......I am really sorry for you ..... Parents are always our best wishers...... If you guys would be separated forever ...... your parents would also not be happy about this.
Don’t go there until she is ready to accept you. Immigration department will not understand and they might just send you back from the airport.
Wait for a little while..... Give her sometime.... if there is no real problem between you guys......she will also realize that she made a mistake.....keep sending her emails saying that you want to settle down all the problems.
Those 5 points do not matter now......you guys have your passports stamped so she will not be in any trouble at all.
[04-10-2011,03:20]
[***.186.130.128]
Listener |
