Marriage of Convenience (Part 2)

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Subject: Marriage of Convenience (Part 2)
  Hi, thanks all for your valuable advices. I agree with 41.213. I’ll surely have some meeting with him before getting married but first I’m letting my parents verify everything and so that if something wrong comes up it wouldn’t affect me that much lol I hate taking risks. But yea if everything goes smoothly then I’ll surely meet him.
Sharon! He is not educated here and I think for Canadian experience class he needs to have good education?
And guys I didn’t tell you one important thing. This is my second marriage. The reason I am so scared with this scenario bcoz the person I got married before he was in India and just for the PR he used me but I was lucky to know his game before his arrival and I cancelled sponsorship. The marriage stayed for 6 months only. I am 24 now but never wanted to marry again but people admire him a lot and they say we will make a perfect couple as our nature is alike and he doesn’t have any problem with being my divorcee. I don’t know why but I don’t wanna marry someone who already has everything … I would feel inferiority complex or he may taunt me :( If I marry this guy atleast I could say that I have helped him too. I hope you can understand :( but if same thing happened again I don’t know how I would survive :(

[26-09-2011,14:28]
[**.240.198.79]
Canadian
Marriage of Convenience (Part 2) (in reply to: Marriage of Convenience (Part 2))
I didn’t know that discussion will be closed after 10 posts. Can you guys please suggest me what kind of questions I should ask him in my first meeting so that I could know him well and his intentions. I´m confused :S
Thanks a lot

[26-09-2011,14:31]
[**.240.198.79]
Canadian
(in reply to: Marriage of Convenience (Part 2))
I am sorry dear ....... but.....from all your posts what i could conclude is that ..........this man does not love u :(

[26-09-2011,14:33]
[***.29.230.233]
Listener
(in reply to: Marriage of Convenience (Part 2))
Does he feel inferior when you processed more than he does? In a relationship, you/he should not feel inferior regardless of wealth, education, caste etc etc.
The potential problem (I think) is that he may feel inferior when compare to you when he lands. After a while, he may be tired of taking instruction/advice whatever you call it. Does typical Indian men has a big ego?

[26-09-2011,14:46]
[***.124.134.110]
SG
(in reply to: Marriage of Convenience (Part 2))
ask him what he imagines his life will be like after marriage. find out how he would feel if you worked, if you earned more money thank he does, if you would want to go away for the weekend with your girlfriends, if you would want to go out for dinner after work with your colleagues. Does he know how to do his own laundry and cook himself some food? How would he feel if you had your own bank account and credit card?

He may say no problem to all of the above... so make sure his actions match his words in smaller things so you know if he is ready to make you happy.

Maybe not all in the first meeting.

[26-09-2011,17:18]
[**.180.239.117]
Sharon
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