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| Subject: Stop my spouse to go to canada |
Hi,
Our married life is in big problem. My wife is a principal applicant.We got visa but i don´t want and let her go to Canada. I did all the work for this and now she wants separation. Can i stop her to go to Canada. Please help me because it will help us to stay together.
[22-09-2011,19:15]
[***.223.95.229]
Robi |
(in reply to: Stop my spouse to go to canada)
Nope. If she´s the principal applicant and has the visa already then there is nothing you can do.
[22-09-2011,19:20]
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cangirl |
(in reply to: Stop my spouse to go to canada)
cangirl,
I´ve processed the file and submitted some false documents. she don´t know anything.
[22-09-2011,19:27]
[***.223.95.229]
Robi |
(in reply to: Stop my spouse to go to canada)
Believe me when I say that you cannot force someone to love you - or stay with you.
Perhaps some honesty might help you more. As Cangirl has said... if she is the principle applicant, she is free to go to Canada. If you want to confess to your crime, by all means but please be sure that a future in Canada will be over for both of you and there is a very good chance she will still not want to be with you.
[22-09-2011,20:56]
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Sharon |
(in reply to: Stop my spouse to go to canada)
y dont u try to settle down ur problems.
u ppl must be on good terms when u applied. what has happened now? what went so wrong that u r leaving her alone.
y dont u give each other one more chance...
im sure if u go to Canada together life will be better for u both.
[23-09-2011,05:46]
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Listener |
(in reply to: Stop my spouse to go to canada)
what went right or wrong with this relationship is none of our business. Immigration is stressful so if things are difficult now, they are not likely to improve when the heat is on. In the same way- hoping if you prevent someone from moving that they will fall back in love with you is pure fantasy. Resentment is not romantic.
Sometimes it is better to let go, dust yourself off and make the best of your future.
[23-09-2011,12:17]
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Sharon |
(in reply to: Stop my spouse to go to canada)
separation is not always the right choice ........
i know its very difficult to survive a nearly broken marriage but .... it is always very easy to let go and separate
we r humans ....the best creation ..... so y chose the easy way .......... y not the difficult one
Robi plz.......think positively
the decisions that are made in anger.... are always wrong.
[23-09-2011,15:28]
[***.29.234.81]
Listener |
(in reply to: Stop my spouse to go to canada)
´it is always very easy to let go and separate´ Listener... you have obviously never torn your life apart through a marriage separation. Your comment is nothing short of ignorant.
[23-09-2011,18:59]
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Sharon |
(in reply to: Stop my spouse to go to canada)
in my life i went through the worst marriege ever .... u can not even think about it......
but i was determined to save my marriage and the God gave me courage ......and im happy now
in bad times ... letting go is very easy ...but sticking together is indeed very difficult.
i can say what ever i experienced in my life ...and for me staying together and trying even harder to save your marriage is the best choice
[24-09-2011,08:23]
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Listener |
(in reply to: Stop my spouse to go to canada)
Listener, please speak for yourself. Contemplating a split up is hard enough without people lecturing them about best choices, and the right thing to do and how quitting is too easy.
After 18 years of marriage, my divorce was the hardest thing I ever did... but the very best thing that could have happened for my life.
It takes 2 to decide to marry but only one person is needed to have it fall apart. Sometimes people are not given a choice about staying together.
[24-09-2011,14:02]
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Sharon |
(in reply to: Stop my spouse to go to canada)
Robi ............ make ur own choice and think about it 100 times ........
dont listen to anyone but ur heart
[24-09-2011,16:41]
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Listener |
