Harrased by wife and her kids.

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Subject: Harrased by wife and her kids.
  I met my present wife online in 2006. we are both pakistani. in 2008 we got married in pakistan after she changed her religion to mine. in nov 2009 i arrived in canada as landed immigrant. she is older than me by 20 years. i am 20 and she 40. she has 3 kids from her dead husband. her kids hate me and want me out of the house and always tell me to leave. i am very nice with everyone.her daughters are 19 and 17. the older one live with her boyfriend in the basement and she is pregnant. I buy food for the house and i pay bills but always they ask me to leave. now my wife who is on welfare want me to give her 1200 dollars every month or i have to leave and she will throw out of canada in 24 hours. can she do that. i am very ashamed and think of suicide if my family know of humilation. what will happen to me if i leave the house can she kick me out of canada to pakistan?

thank you.

[08-06-2010,18:08]
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john
(in reply to: Harrased by wife and her kids.)

No, she cannot. What is your status in Canada?

You are free to terminate your relationship at any time.

[08-06-2010,19:37]
[***.115.153.178]
DocD
(in reply to: Harrased by wife and her kids.)
I am landed immigrant. very hard to live with situation. I dont dare say anything to them because i am afraid and i dont know anyone here.

thank you.

[08-06-2010,21:02]
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john
(in reply to: Harrased by wife and her kids.)
Come on man. Get out from there immediately.
[08-06-2010,21:58]
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Anonymous
(in reply to: Harrased by wife and her kids.)
u got the landing paper as immigrant, u r free man now, leave them and start ur new life. dont do this mistake again in ur life.Always think thousand of time before marriage, u r ruining ur life, dont play with ur life brother.
[09-06-2010,02:45]
[***.229.235.40]
khan
(in reply to: Harrased by wife and her kids.)
John

You married a woman who has children older than you!
You met (online) and it is not an arranged marriage?
You married a woman in Pakistan that was not in your religion until she converted????
I suspect no interview was asked for, correct?
Your wife has three daughters one who is living common law in the basement, SO?

You want everyone here to believe that!!!!

You want compassion but compassion has to be common sense.

Let´s say your posting is true, which is really difficult for me to accept.

If your paying the bills you must be a real Sugar Daddy!
In Seven Months (your landing was November 2009) you´re employed and paying the Bills. Good for you!
No one on welfare can sponsor and even though your paying the bills, wife is on welfare?? She must be the really bad girl, lol.

You have a job and get told to leave and your such a mouse you say nothing?

WHAT IS WRONG WITH THIS PICTURE, PEOPLE?

Roy
cvimmigration.com

[09-06-2010,06:55]
[**.71.122.199]
Roy
(in reply to: Harrased by wife and her kids.)
Above story
For a movie, perhaps.
For a reality, yeah rite....nice try John

[09-06-2010,09:35]
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apron
(in reply to: Harrased by wife and her kids.)
I agree with Roy, Story doesnt make sense,

1)
no man in the world would pay the bills and say nothing when asked to leave the house.

2)
you met her online? and got married with the woman who has kids of your age or older?

3)
She was converted to your religion? and she is also from Pakistan....

Come on, grow up.


[09-06-2010,09:42]
[***.94.228.6]
Nisha
(in reply to: Harrased by wife and her kids.)
first, thank you for the help. you are free to believe what you want but my story is true. i am not rich but i am intelligent and also educated. i work 2 jobs 1 in construction and 1 in restaurant.

for those who did not believe me one question. what do i win from telling my story. for those who helped me. thank you.
i wanted to ask if i can be deported and i have it the answer.

[09-06-2010,10:49]
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john
(in reply to: Harrased by wife and her kids.)
You said you were intelligent and educated. However the story tells us quite the opposite. You even ask if you can be deported for issues like your story? Then I am wondering how the hell did you finish your high school...
Enough said.

[09-06-2010,22:34]
[***.136.144.80]
apron
(in reply to: Harrased by wife and her kids.)
maybe you know what to do in a new land. everything is easy when you are in your country and you know how to do everything. in a new country everything is different. for example it take me 15 minute to write this for you maybe 1 minute. i am intelligent and eductaed and ia have diffcultes only now but in time i will do many many good things.
[09-06-2010,23:59]
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john