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my father pass the skilled worker category, and then with the help of my aunt were here at canada. we arrive last november 29, 2007. as a permanent resident here in canada. we are currently living here in mississauga. and this is our 3 months in our aunt´s house?? and they harrassing us for termination in thier house.by the way my aunt/uncle signed a paper that let us stay for a settlement period here in canada
- i was asking if we have rights to complain in immigration canada?
- and are they eligible to terminate us without any legal grounds?
im hoping for you advice, and welcomed any opinions thanks!
[16-03-2008,22:02]
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Aurelio Agudo |
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(in reply to: We have Sponsored, then my aunt want to terminate.)
your aunt has assisted you out of kindness, NOT obligation to Immigration Canada. You were to have brought enough money for settlement - that is what it is for.
I am not sure what sort of agreement you signed with your aunt - please explan.
[17-03-2008,02:18]
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Sharon |
(in reply to: We have Sponsored, then my aunt want to terminate.)
There you go, didnt anyone tell you that you would suffer here in Canada? Why you guys all make the same mistake? Being accepted to the country doesnt mean anything, forget about your qualifications, degrees at home, they will not give a shit about it, they only need some educated cheap workers in Canada, so that those white Canadians can work and rule you !!!
Now you are complaining about your aunt, see she did something nice to accept you in their home, do you know what? I am sure they are not real Canadians, because real Canadians would not let you stay in their home even for a night, not because they are not good people, no Canadians are in fact very nice people but they cannot afford that, they are all poor, pay loans until their life and they even kick their kids as when they become 18, because they have no money to look after them !!!!eLife is tough in Canada it is not a dream land, it is tough for those people who have been living here for hundred of years and for those immigrants oh well it is much much tougher !!!! Be polite to your aunt, and better find a job at a TimHortons, or seven eleven and pray to god that at least you can earn your own bread to eat...then you will be too tired to find some time to cry and regret coming here!!! That is what I have been doing for many years brother...!!!
[17-03-2008,06:03]
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Len Kim |
(in reply to: We have Sponsored, then my aunt want to terminate.)
Negative energy.
Why do so many people have to ruin such a beautiful day by going on "whoa is me". It´s above freezing in Toronto and its not snowing!!!! These people rant and rave to people who has chosen Canada as their place of residents. They choose Canada and these negative energy people keep coming to this forum to hide behind a name.
Canada has one of the best economies in the world, lots of open spaces, a country were many ethnic groups live in harmony, a country with opportunity for many more, a political system that works, some of the best hospitals in the world, free health care, an abundance of nature, etc.
Is Canada perfect, NO, its a work in progress just like what is a Canadian is a work in progress. Some times trolls like Len gets in and complains because their life is not good others won´t be either.
Did you ever think Len if you spent more time trying to improve your own life it might actually improve. You have a brain use it for your own and your families benefit. Stop being so negative. Help people instead of trying to tear down their hopes and dreams.
Roy
www.cvimmigration.com
[17-03-2008,10:50]
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Roy |
(in reply to: We have Sponsored, then my aunt want to terminate.)
my aunt and his husband signed a paper, that they will assist us in settlement period (no definite time, no definite value),
my aunt said that life here in canada is better, YES ITS BETTER. but all she said is about CANADA YESTERDAY, i mean CANADA LAST 10 years. today canada is really a tough road for newcommers.lots of benifit´s are gone,even the jobs now are agency-based, and we cant even rent an apartment for 6 of us. but SHE NEVER TOLD THAT BEFORE!.
in the first place it´s a good thing they help us to get in here, because in the philippines there is no opportunity than america. but my aunt hide all the truths about CANADA TODAY!.
she never mention about the overcrowded population of toronto,and also the agency-based job TODAY,even the Traffic Regulations.
BOTTOM LINE IS: THEY WERE THE ONCE WHO RECRUIT US IN HER GREAT COUNTRY CANADA. AND NOW THEY WANT US OUT BECAUSE OF WE INVADED THIER PRIVACY!.
for now we live in the basement, no heater, no hotwatersystem, no televisions, no telephone, but its a good thing we have internet!
[17-03-2008,12:28]
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Aurelio Agudo |
(in reply to: We have Sponsored, then my aunt want to terminate.)
Dear Aurelio, I think you shouldn´t be quick to judge your aunt... she has done you a favour and no one pushed you and your family at gun point to apply to immigrate to Canada ... I am sure you all made the decision together ... now I think it is time that you all face the reality of your new life... you have to make the best of what you have of Canada TODAY!
If I were you, I will patch things up with my aunt... and ask her to give you guys a chance to stay until you are able to move out... and try to work towards it and move out as quick as possible... I can´t not even imagine how hard it must be for her to have opened her doors to SIX people, I am sure she wasn´t expecting or considering the stress involved or even if she did... she decided to overlook that and welcome you guys... so think about her position as well...
You must try to get on with your life... even if it is hard... try to make it happen... it will be hard but at least you seem to have some family around to contribute... perhaps if you all have jobs (even low paying ones) you can afford your own place... don´t hold a grudge against your aunt most likely she had the best intentions to help ...
Good Luck...
[17-03-2008,12:58]
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Lily |
(in reply to: We have Sponsored, then my aunt want to terminate.)
when a couple lives together and it does not work out, they get a divorce and go their separate ways. If Canada is not what you imagined and it is harder than you thought - get a divorce. There are thousands of alternate countries you can live in, including the place you left. Nobody forces you to stay and why would you want to if it is not working out.
Given the Canadian economy has never been better and unemployment is at a 30 year low - I am confused what you were expecting to find.
You need to die to find paradise.
[17-03-2008,13:22]
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Sharon |
(in reply to: We have Sponsored, then my aunt want to terminate.)
Thanks for everyone´s comment.. i do appreciate the good things that have done but you know it come´s to the point that my aunt pointed us down i mean.. she told that " my dad is an irresponsible father because we went here and my dad never find a job in 3 months .. " because his 52 years old and he dont have a canadian experience, and character reference. we have a good life in philippines, we own a house, we have 2 computer shop, we have 2 cars. and my father decided to quit his job as a senior electrician in papua new guinea, just to see this promise land that my aunt told us, and then we came here its a different world. "its all about her fallacious words." i mean its all her fault though..
the thing is they want us because of thier privacy. why does she volounteer to open her doors to us,and they want us to get out in an INSTANT!, didnt she figure out the consequences.It is understandable if she said it nicely, but she didnt.. shes yelling..
here´s the thing we want to teach her a lesson, because she and her husband want to sponsor another stupid person that dont have any idea of what canada NOW!, and what would be his/her life in this house.. because i think they are making a good impression prior to immigration canada.
Im asking if we have rights or something to point or to complain about this case, i dont want to be so rude or to the extent that we will file a case - ground harrasment.. we just want that immigration canada will ban them on thier sponsorship business.
[17-03-2008,15:47]
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Aurelio Agudo |
In reply to: We have Sponsored, then my aunt want to terminate (in reply to: We have Sponsored, then my aunt want to terminate.)
Come on Aurelio... if your family came to Canada through the Skilled worker category then your Aunt actually doesnt have any obligations to the SIX of you. Your father was evaluated based on his qualifications (including x amount of money as settlement funds once application is approved). Your Aunt, being either permanent resident or Canadian citizen, actually gave your father additional 5 points in order to meet the passing mark of 67/100. Seriously speaking Aurelio (im from Philippines also by the way), you should be thankful to your Aunt in opening her home to your family. Don´t take advantage of her generosity... What type of nephew are you Aurelio... trying to find ways to make life worst to your Aunt by finding ways to get even with her (base on you unacceptable reasoning... again, your Aunt DID NOT SPONSOR your father). If I were you I will sort out the misunderstanding with your Aunt and ask her to allow you to stay in her basement apartment for few more weeks. Do your part, the SIX of you should find a job ASAP in order to afford paying an apartment. Do not look for a supervisory or management job as yet... Not right now... eventually it will be possible.
I want to clarify lots of things to you... Kakahiya itong mga postings mo dito to tell you frankly... I am trying to understand you na mis-informed ka kaya kinaya mong magsalita ng ganon sa Aunt mo... Post your phone number or email and I will commnicate back with you...
[17-03-2008,18:06]
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Elopez |
(in reply to: We have Sponsored, then my aunt want to terminate.)
if you attitude torward your aunt is anything like you project in your posts, you are lucky she has not put you out on the street!
She did you a favour. Nobody forced you to come here. In her perspective, Canada is a good place to live. Sorry after 90 days you don´t agree.
You always have the option to go back to the Phillipines.
[17-03-2008,19:18]
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sharon |
(in reply to: We have Sponsored, then my aunt want to terminate.)
thanks to sharon,len kim,roy,lily,elopez that participate in this forum, i get all your point´s.. all of you are right.. i knew it.. but its hard to tell the whole story by typing, and we also have different culture´s.. because in the philippines we have a trait "close-family-ties" and i think making us go in an instant is a deviant behaviour. i just wish that if someday im going to sponsor someone, i might offer my both hands to help. not just my aunt did, when she feels the pressure she let go her hands to us.
thanks you very much and god bless us all. (salamat po elopez .. ang email address ko po ay aweng111688@yahoo.com)
[17-03-2008,21:17]
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Aurelio Agudo |
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